Archive for the ‘Quotations’ Category

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Cougar Quotations

December 18, 2009

The older man/younger woman dynamic reinforces patriarchal conventions; the older woman/younger man dynamic subverts them.
Hugo Schwyzer

It’s not exactly what you’d call a May-December romance. We’re more like summer and fall. His family would rather see him with some sweet young thing. But there is an important difference between me and the sweet young things: I know how special he is.
Robbie Campbell

“You know, if you were forty years younger…”
Glorianna O’Toole curled her upper lip disdainfully. “Don’t flatter yourself too far,” she said. “If I were forty years younger I wouldn’t look at a kid like you twice!”
Norman Spinrad in Little Heroes

I have finally figured out the rudiments of how to love somebody, too late. There are no men my age, and if there are, they want twenty-two-year-olds to bear their children. Will I ever be able to practice this loving?
Cynthia Heimel

I think men get a HUGE pass on this kind of stuff (just one pass of many that we dames don’t get)…go to a shopping mall, and see some young chick with a guy 20 years her senior, nobody bats an eye, but the reverse? The trouble is, nobody calls a guy a “dirty old man” unless he’s maybe 40 years older than the woman…or girl…With us, 10 years qualifies us as being cougars.
Angelina Orduno

My hubby is 14 years younger than I am….I just happen to enjoy still putting toys on layaway at KMart.
Debbie Shearer Aures

Anybody who wants to screw a sixty-three-year-old woman I wouldn’t wanna screw anyway! Okay? Because they have big problems.
Grace Slick

Women may eroticize youth and vigor in younger men, but they rarely are turned on by displays of ignorance or uncertainty; high-brow Western literature and low-brow pornography are filled with countless examples of men being aroused by much younger women who either “play dumb” — or are the genuine article.
Hugo Schwyzer

“Actually, he’s my boyfriend. My son is slightly older.”
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Most men grow up believing in sex as a favor they have been granted — sex as strategy or currency or power. Therefore, the act itself is full of threat. The older woman typically is indifferent to being dominated or getting something in return. …She is interested not in power but in pleasure.
Paul Theroux

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Courtship: Quotations

February 21, 2009

Men who supplement early dating with a lot of swell gifts are generally distracting you from the stuff they are never going to give you.
Merrill Markoe

Courtship consists in a number of quiet attentions, not so pointed as to alarm, nor so vague as not to be understood.
Laurence Sterne

But nowadays men cannot love but seven night but they must have all their desires… right so fareth love nowadays; soon hot, soon cold. This is no stability, but the old love was not so. Man and woman could live together seven years, and no wanton lusts were between them, and then was true love and faithfulness.
Thomas Malory (in the 16th Century)

Those Marriages generally abound most with Love and Constancy, that are preceded by a long Courtship.
Joseph Addison

There is an unspeakable luxury, charged with a powerful undercurrent of eroticism, in choreographing a seduction to unfold not in hours or in days, but in months.
Ginger Lyon

Is anyone entirely innocent of the way they exist in another’s heart? Every interaction is part conspiracy. Afterward each person is both more and less than they were, and none of this has happened without some intent, however unconscious that intent may be.
Michael Ventura

Anything you feed will grow.

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